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Changing my Linkedin philosophy

For a while I held the belief that I should only accept Linkedin requests from people I know well and have actually worked with. This was due to the fact that I didn’t want to be asked for recommendations or introductions from and to people that I didn’t really know. I’ve changed my mind this week.

Small interactions can mean a significant amount to people. I’ve connected with a couple of people recently who made a little time for me and it meant a lot. I’m not sure if these people will remember me in the next couple of weeks but I sure as hell hope so. At first I was a bit taken back when I received Linkedin invites from a couple of people who’ve accomplished a lot but then I realized that this should work both ways. If there’s anyone I made time for who wants to stay in touch I should be open to them.

I also came across this piece on Mashable about Linkedin, a lot of it is pretty basic, but the one thing that stuck out to me was:

There are some on LinkedIn who believe you should only connect with a small percentage of professionals you know and trust. Others say (including myself) you should connect with everyone, even if you vaguely know them.

When looking for a job, you never know who will be able to recommend you, or who is looking for someone to fill a position where you would be a perfect fit.

That really hit a cord with me. Who knows who might be able to help me find a job or find the right person to fit a role in the coming months/years so I should be open to them I guess.

The one thing I won’t change is my stance on recommendations and introductions. I only recommend people that I truly would want to work with again. My connections are precious so introducing someone when I’m not totally sure about their value won’t really happen. So am I way off on my Linkedin philosophy?

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  • julien

    Couldn't agree more. I tended to think at the beginning that accepting connection requests from people I barely knew was weakening my network and would end up a bit like when you registered to too many newsletter on an email in the “old days” (5 years ago in Internet time ;) ), your inbox turns into a spam inbox pretty quickly. In reality, apart from the fact that who knows when a connection is going to lead to a new job or business opportunity, you also get to see opportunities to register to useful groups and connections act as a bit of a discovery tool. Then the buck stops where you need to actually recommend/introduce someone, I agree you need to know the person well otherwise, you abuse the trust of the connection.